You don't need to dress your age!

my question

is if you are in your

6s or 50s and your body says

30 why are you still dressing

60 I truly do not believe that people

should be held up in

this societal expectations of dressing

their age like who's coming up with all

of these

rules if if somebody within themselves

they feel that they are younger or older

than their age and they want to dress to

match how they feel within themselves

then they should have the freedom to do

so I don't understand I've seen so many

so many comments um about women who are

in their 50s who are still liking to

dress up sexy and shoulder curves and

cleavage if a woman wants to dress that

way because she she feels sexy and she

wants to to embrace her

sexiness why are people against

her I think we've passed that stage in

this world where women are told are

being told to wear a certain way like

why it doesn't matter anymore

because it clearly doesn't matter how a

woman is wearing she's still going to be

whatever

harassed people are still going to treat

her the same way they'll treat a woman

who's dressing to reveal

because it's the world that we find

ourselves in it's the world that we find

ourselves in so women might as well just

live how they want to live and I'm not

advocating for for women walking around

the streets naked that's absolutely not

what I'm saying I'm saying if a woman is

50 and she feels 30 and the body screams

dirty why why can't she dress like she's

dirty why if she wants to dress like

that let her because you're not her

husband you're not her daughter

why does it bother you how she's wearing

are you are you the the the the the god

of age the god of fashion and age for

you to be like don't wear this wear your

age no don't do that why do you want

people to why do you always want people

to I don't know like I I don't like it

when people they behave or they want

people to end up

looking I don't know I don't know man I

don't know how how this is going to come

out when I say it but I'm so against

people who want to make other people

feel like they are so old and when

you're old your life is done no I don't

believe in that I do not believe in that

and I'm so tired of um this thing of

dressing your age being one of the boxes

which um women are being placed in it's

like now when you are when you are past

30 I don't know why they even make the

the the age 30 to sound like or to be

like it's such a big

age

what

what you're not even middle AG yet but

already the society makes women in their

30s to feel like they are these old

women I'm not even yet in my 30s but I'm

not one of the women who who are being

like um yeah man women like women in the

30s they old what that's so crazy I'm

seeing women my age acting like the

older woman um in their 40s I like

grandmothers and I'm like

what no girls if you are 2 one and you

keep thinking that that 30y old she's so

far from you

ah don't fool

yourself the next thing you'll be 30 the

next thing you'll be 30 and you'll be in

the same age that you are criticize her

for being in and sometimes she'll even

be looking younger than you

do sometimes you don't know

you'll be looking older way older than

she is so this is life humble yourself

humble yourself and don't disrespect

women because of age Don't Look Down

onto women because of age in fact they

are lucky they got there are you even so

sure that you're going to live up to

those years do you know how many people

died in your age you think just because

you're 21 you think just because you're

19 you're going to be 19 forever yes

you'll be 19 forever if you die today

you'll be remembered as someone who died

at the age of 19 and that will be the

the age which you'll be remembered for

look at um Aliyah look at Tupac they

died early they they died so early in

their careers so young and that's how

they always remembered we can't think of

Tupac as being an older man we always

see Tupac as that young guy but when you

look at reality had he been had he still

been alive today he'd be very old he'd

be old aiyah would be

old Aliah would be in the same age

groups as um your

Beyonce all of these these women maybe

even older I'm not

sure no I'm not sure but somewhere there

so if you're criticizing or judging

women because of their age then you so

stupid I'm not going to lie how are you

making fun of a woman who's 30 you're

calling her names they're calling her

GoGo Grandma mama why do you do that

it's as if like people are doing this to

make women

feel less pretty as if like at with age

they are Beauty Fates no if you're a

beautiful person it doesn't matter what

age you are you'll be a beautiful 25y

old you'll be a beautiful 30 years 30y

old you'll be a beautiful 35y old you'll

be a beautiful 40y old you are still

beautiful if you're beautiful you're

beautiful the only thing that's going to

change is your age but you're still

beautiful so I don't like it when people

always do these things say these things

to make women in their 30s and above to

feel like they are not pretty they're

not beautiful that's nonsense the other

most ridiculous one which I'm going to

repeat is women on their early

20s making fun of women who are 30 as if

like B the the the the the young 21 year

olds as if like they are this world's

treasure the most special woman of of

the decade no those 30y old women they

were once 21

and they're still very young let me tell

you so if you think that the 30-year-old

woman's life is over then you just

fuling yourself baby fully in yourself

so I can't wait I can't wait to see

myself as a 30-year-old I don't know how

I will be I don't know how my life is

going to be but I know I'm going to be

better than where I am right now I'm

talking about mentally I'm even talking

about physically cuz girl I've got plans

oh I've got plans got plans on um in

incorporating strength training on my

workout

routine um my diet that's going to

transform my skin I've got all of these

plans so one thing I'm happy and

grateful for I've never been someone who

thought that she's any better than woman

who are older than her because if you're

going to go around with that type of

mentality let me tell tell you this the

world will humble you really quick the

world will humble you really really

quick so yeah man um that's it just

don't ever think that you are better

than a 30-year old threey olds are still

very young still very young still very

young they just got out of a stage out

of

a decade in their lives where they've

also just been discovering themselves

some of them those discover themselves

until they get a foood until they can

now live their lives knowing exactly who

they are so they just passed another

wave of

um should I say wave of

adolesence I'm calling it that because

I've been hearing some women talking

about um second puberty

and I think I I think I think I think

I've passed that my second puberty body

changes curves widening up I don't know

I don't know how to explain this but

yeah man I'm just happy for growth one

of the things I'm always thinking not

always but sometimes it just pops it

crosses my mind and I'm thinking I'm

wondering what kind of a 50-year-old I'm

going to be but look at me I'm going to

be this type of 50-year-old like this

this is me as a

50-year-old beautiful

sophisticated

wise

powerful and

Rich

wholesome

woman sophisticated let me

repeat

beautiful and maybe even rigal you know

Regal Beauty rich and wise that will be

me that's how I see myself so I I really

look forward into being that I am truly

looking forward to being that woman

so what can I say I'm looking forward to

growth um life has its ways of teaching

you there's so much to learn because the

more you learn the more you keep real

realizing that W I don't know so much I

do not know so much and you'll that will

even humble you to to be patient cuz

you've just realized there's more to

learn and yeah that's how people look

forward to life that's how people enjoy

growth and I think that's how most

people end up aging like fine wine

because they not

rushing or they are not trying to be

younger than they are they are just

living their lives going through stage

by stage with Grace and compassion for

themselves we are human beings so when

you get old you can only kneel down pray

and thank God for the years that he has

given you people died very young Jesus

died when he was still so young in his

early 30s so young so many people die

young so many people have died and O

it's always so sad not only sad but also

scary I'm not going to lie every time I

hear or see a post of someone who died

young that always scares me that scares

me so much I'm like a young person died

I'm also

young so young people do die that's so

scary that's so scary that could happen

to anyone so and every time someone was

young I'm thinking oh my God they had

plans they had goals they had dreams

they had a family they had so much they

wanted to achieve for themselves and

it's all just gone just like that that's

scary that's scary so that's why it's

it's important to be grateful for their

life it's important to even look

grateful not look grateful it's

important to to look forward for more

yes for more growth for more aging

good

aging and what comes with good aging

good health what comes with good health

less

stress good

diet a more

laughter and less

hate guys I think I've said a lot until

next time I'll see you

toodles bye