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Only you can love you exactly how you want to be loved.
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May 15, 2025
Only you can love you exactly how you want to be loved.
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listen um what I've been
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learning recently about life about love
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about
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anything it's that no one in this world
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will ever give me what I truly
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want so the type of love from
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relationships from friendships and even
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from family the type of love that I
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Envision in my
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mind it's not the type of love that I'm
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going to get from anyone else because
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that's what I want that's what I know I
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am capable of giving myself so I put
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people in this
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position where now I'm expecting them to
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give me that so this this is what makes
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most people work
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extra hard work extra hard because they
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think if I work this hard um if I please
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this person they'll give me exactly what
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I want but then people don't give you
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exactly what they want because they
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don't really know what you want because
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the type of love that you want is in
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your own head so if it's in your own
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head all you can do is to describe it
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but they don't know how it feels they're
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not going to know how you want to to
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feel so the best thing you can do for
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yourself is to actually give that love
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to
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yourself I think we are so lucky that we
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can actually love
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ourselves we have that ability to love
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ourselves I was just thinking the other
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day how sad it would be if we were
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unable to love ourselves but being those
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type of being that have to depend on
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each other for
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love I am so grateful that we can love
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ourselves
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so since we find ourselves in this world
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where no one is perfect where love is
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not
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guaranteed from other people at least
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within yourself love is guaranteed and I
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think the reason why we can love
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ourselves is because we have God within
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us I
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think God being in US is
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very big it's a big big big blessing
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that I don't want to take for granted I
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am so grateful I am so grateful that I
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have God inside of me I am so grateful
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that I am a being that has God inside of
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them I don't know which other being have
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God inside of them cuz I don't want to I
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don't want to talk too much and say uh
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dogs dogs don't have God inside of them
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I don't know nobody knows which other
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beings have got inside of them but this
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intelligence This Love that animals can
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show us I don't want to lie that just
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tells me that there's God inside of
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these beings as well so we don't really
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know what's in what who's in what what's
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going on but it at least I know that as
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a human being I have God within me God
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dwells God dwells in me so that's
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something to celebrate every day that's
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something I never want to take for
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granted and yeah man um that's it I I
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don't want
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to I don't want to talk much but I just
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wanted to show appreciation for the fact
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that that we can love ourselves because
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wo what would we
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do
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if nobody loved us and we can't even
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love ourselves or we can't even have
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ideas to love ourselves it would have
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been very sad imagine finding
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yourself where nobody loves you and it's
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not like people are like
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intentionally um making this decision to
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not love you you know love does not work
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like that you don't make a decision to
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say hey I'm going to love this person it
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doesn't work like that so it's not like
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people um are planning on to not loving
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you but just finding yourself where
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you're not
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loved um that would have that that would
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hurt that would hurt so much and even if
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it's that way one thing that I also love
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that even if you can't love yourself you
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don't love yourself and nobody else
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loves you guess who loves you every day
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who loved you yesterday is going to love
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you now who loves you now and he's going
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to love you tomorrow that is God God is
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amazing God is amazing
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so
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um I just want you to know that you are
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loved I'm not saying this trying to
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motivate you you are loved you have you
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have God inside of you dwelling inside
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of you a god of love God whom is love
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you know they say God is love you have
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love inside of you so the love that you
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want from other people just give it to
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yourself cuz you have it you want
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somebody's going to buy you
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flowers buy yourself flowers if you
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don't afford to buy flowers go to a
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garden and pl out some flowers make
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yourself a small bouquet and take care
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of it and love it and appreciate it
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plant yourself a flower just do
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something for yourself speak to yourself
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nicely how you would like people who
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love you to speak to you respect
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yourself be gentle with yourself and
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treat yourself better I I think that's
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one of the things that you can do I
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think that's one of the things that you
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can do to show your that you love
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yourself so I'm just saying expecting
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the
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people to give you the exact love that
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you envision for yourself it's
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unrealistic and very unfair if you find
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someone who's going to love you even
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better than you've envisioned for
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yourself wow that's that's beautiful
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because that's very possible it happens
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every day so if you find yourself there
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C that appreciate that and cherish every
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moment with that person but if you're
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somebody who's not getting exactly what
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they want from other people and that is
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love the way you want to be loved maybe
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they are just not um equipped to be able
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to love you that way it doesn't mean
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that they selfish or they bad or they
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don't love you at all they just can't
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love you how you want them to love you
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so maybe you should love yourself that
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way and yeah man
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I don't know what else to say I think
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I've said everything that I wanted to
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say about selflove and the importance of
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not expecting people to love you exactly
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how you want them to love you because
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people don't always know people don't
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always know what's going on in your mind
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how you want to be loved you can always
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tell them and you are lucky if they get
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exactly what you're trying to say to
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them so yeah man um until next time my
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beautiful people bye and toodles
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