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The Love You DESERVE Will Come When You Do THIS
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Apr 18, 2025
Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same kind of relationships? In this powerful video, you'll discover why the love you truly deserve comes effortlessly once you learn to genuinely love yourself. Based on profound psychological insights and proven self-love principles, this guide will show you exactly how to shift your mindset, elevate your energy, and finally attract authentic, meaningful love into your life. Learn why chasing relationships never works and why true love arrives only when you stop needing external validation. If you're tired of feeling undervalued or getting stuck in cycles of unhealthy connections, this video holds the answers you've been looking for. Hit subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a comment below—let’s grow together! Looking for more? Visit https://happilylover.com for wishes, messages, greetings, texts, and quotes to build and maintain healthy relationships with your partner, family members, friends, and others. #love #relationship #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #loveandaffection #relationshiptips #relationshipfacts #relationshipbuilding #couplegoals
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have you ever experienced that powerful
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unexplainable connection with someone
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that feeling where their eyes speak
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louder than words and your heart seems
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to recognize theirs
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instantly it feels magical doesn't
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it but let me ask you something very
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important what happens when this intense
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connection isn't mutual
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what happens when the person you feel so
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deeply for doesn't choose you in
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return it's painful isn't
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it because deep down we all just want to
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feel seen chosen and
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valued but here's a life-changing truth
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most people
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miss the most significant relationship
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you'll ever have isn't with another
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person it's with yourself
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and today I'm going to reveal something
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extraordinary to
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you something that once you truly grasp
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it will completely transform how you
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attract love into your
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life stick around until the end because
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I'm going to ask you something that will
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challenge you to make this truth your
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new reality
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why everything you learned about love is
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wrong throughout your life you've been
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told that love comes from outside that
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happiness lies in finding that special
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someone who will complete
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you movies songs society they've
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convinced you that without external
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validation you aren't enough
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but what if I told you this is the
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greatest lie you've ever
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believed because the truth is you are
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already
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complete real love isn't about filling
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emptiness it's not about needing another
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person to validate your
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worth it's about recognizing your worth
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first and allowing the right people to
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meet you there
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carl Young famously said "Until you make
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the unconscious conscious it will direct
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your life and you'll call it
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fate." Think about it for a
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second if you constantly feel unworthy
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or unloved you'll unconsciously attract
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relationships that mirror these
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beliefs ever wonder why you keep dating
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the same type of person experiencing the
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same disappointments over and over
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again it's no
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coincidence it's your internal belief
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system manifesting
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outwardly but here's the incredible news
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you have the power to change that
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pattern starting right
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now how your self- loveve defines your
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relationships
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let's consider an example
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together imagine someone who has spent
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years trapped in relationships where
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they felt undervalued unloved or
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ignored they did everything possible to
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please their partners desperately trying
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to prove their worth yet always feeling
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empty and
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exhausted sound familiar
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but here's the thing they never ask
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themselves am I giving myself the love
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I'm craving from
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others they never realized that the lack
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of love they received was a direct
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reflection of the love they were not
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giving
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themselves the harsh truth is if you
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don't respect yourself you'll settle for
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disrespect if you don't love yourself
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you'll accept relationships that feel
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empty but what if one day this person
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decided they've had
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enough they choose to start treating
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themselves differently speaking kindly
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respecting their own boundaries
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appreciating their own
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worth at first it feels
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strange but soon something magical
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happens
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the toxic indifferent or inconsistent
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people begin to drift
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away not because anything is wrong but
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because their energies no longer
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match and suddenly they start attracting
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new healthier people
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effortlessly people who genuinely
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respect and value them
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people who make them feel seen not
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because they're begging for attention
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but because they finally know they
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deserve
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it how you treat yourself is exactly how
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others will treat
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you ask yourself honestly right
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now one how do you speak to yourself
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when you make
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mistakes two how do you treat yourself
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when you're hurting
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three do you set healthy boundaries or
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do you let people walk over
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you four are you giving yourself the
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kind of love you dream of receiving from
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others you can't demand respect from
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others if you don't respect
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yourself you can't expect deep
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unconditional love if you're not even
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giving it to
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yourself carl Young believed the outer
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world reflects our inner world
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if inside you feel insecure unworthy or
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unloved your outer world your
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relationships will mirror exactly
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that but the moment you change how you
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treat yourself the entire world around
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you
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transforms how to become irresistible
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without chasing anyone
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have you ever noticed that some people
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effortlessly attract genuine love while
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others chase endlessly but never truly
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find
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it this is all about
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energy let's look at two
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examples person one is desperate for
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love they're afraid of being alone so
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they constantly chase relationships
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they bend over backward to be liked
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molding themselves to other people's
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expectations their energy screams
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neediness insecurity and
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desperation naturally they attract
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partners who exploit these insecurities
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who disappear easily who never fully
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commit person two has learned to enjoy
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their own company
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they don't desperately seek validation
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because they've validated
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themselves they're comfortable being
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alone and don't chase
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anyone their energy is magnetic
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confident and
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complete naturally they attract partners
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who value them effortlessly who match
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their self-worth and
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self-respect do you see the difference
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the energy you project determines
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exactly who you
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attract if you want a different outcome
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you must first change your inner
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frequency stop chasing love attract it
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instead we've been taught love is
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something we have to chase
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but here's another important
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truth real love never needs to be
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chased because when you're chasing
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you're signaling to the universe that
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you're lacking that you're not enough on
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your
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own carl Young said "What you resist
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persists
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the more you chase love from desperation
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the further it runs from
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you but when you stop chasing when you
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simply focus on loving your life loving
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yourself and trusting that what's meant
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for you will come the right
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relationships appear
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effortlessly imagine trying to hold sand
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tightly the harder you squeeze the
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faster it slips through your fingers
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but if you gently open your hand the
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sand simply
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stays love is exactly like
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that stop
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chasing
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trust let
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go and watch love find you naturally
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three keys to conscious and balanced
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relationships so how do you build
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healthy lasting relationships from this
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point
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forward there are three essential
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keys one
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self-awareness understand your patterns
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your triggers and your true desires
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you can't build a healthy connection
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without fully understanding yourself
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first two emotional
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independence love should not come from
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fear of loneliness or
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dependence it should come from a place
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of abundance where two complete
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individuals choose each other
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consciously every
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day three honest communication
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real love thrives on
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authenticity you must speak your truth
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clearly without fear or
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manipulation this honesty builds trust
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and intimacy that
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lasts with these keys love doesn't feel
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like a battlefield it feels like
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home the most important step to
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attracting
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love before you find the right love you
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must first find
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yourself ask yourself right
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now one am I looking for someone to
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complete
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me two am I expecting others to validate
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my
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worth three am I holding on to past
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hurts and allowing them to sabotage new
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love if your answer is yes it's time for
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a deep internal shift
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you must first become the love you're
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seeking when you do something powerful
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happens you stop
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chasing you stop
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begging you stop fearing loneliness
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instead your energy shifts from
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neediness to magnetic
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confidence you effortlessly attract
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people who genuinely value you because
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your energy makes it impossible for
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anything less to come your
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way your time is now choose yourself
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today today is the moment you change
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your life forever
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comment down below right
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now i choose myself and I attract the
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love I
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deserve let the world see your
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commitment to loving yourself fully and
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unapologetically like this video if it
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resonates with you and please share it
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with someone who needs this powerful
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message and if you haven't yet subscribe
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now together we'll continue this
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incredible journey of transformation and
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self-love remember the love you've
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always dreamed of isn't out there
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somewhere it's right here within
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you and the moment you truly realize
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this the entire universe will respond by
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bringing exactly the love you've always
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deserved into your
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life thank you for joining me today
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i'll see you in the next
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video take care
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