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How to Spot Fake Affection (And Protect Your Heart)
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Apr 12, 2025
Have you ever felt unsure if someone truly cares for you or if their affection is fake? Fake affection can hurt your heart and waste your precious time. In this easy-to-understand video, you will learn simple signs to spot fake love quickly. You’ll discover how to protect your feelings, avoid emotional traps, and build healthier, happier relationships. Watch until the end to learn exactly how to tell the difference between real love and fake affection. If this video helps you, please LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more relationship advice that keeps your heart safe! Looking for more? Visit https://happilylover.com for wishes, messages, greetings, texts, and quotes to build and maintain healthy relationships with your partner, family members, friends, and others. #relationships #love #fakeaffection #relationshipadvice #datingtips #redflags #protectyourheart #fakelove #emotionalhealth #datingadvice #selfcare
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have you ever wondered if someone's
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affection for you is real or if they're
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just
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pretending fake affection can break your
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heart but spotting it early can protect
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you from
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pain in this video I'll share simple and
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clear signs to help you spot fake
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affection right away so you can protect
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your heart and build happier
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relationships
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stick around because what you learned
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today could save you from emotional
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stress one their words don't match their
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actions the first big sign of fake
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affection is when someone's words don't
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match their
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actions maybe they say beautiful things
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like "I really care about you." Or
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"You're special to me." But their
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behavior shows something different
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they might say they miss you but never
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make time for you or promise things but
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never follow
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through why does this
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happen people who fake affection often
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use sweet words to keep you interested
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but their actions don't support those
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words
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it's easy to talk but real affection is
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shown through consistent actions not
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just
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words simple tip to
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remember always trust actions more than
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words real care is proven by what
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someone does not what they
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say two they only show affection when
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they want something
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does someone only show love or care when
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they want something from
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you maybe they suddenly become nice when
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they need help money or attention but
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when everything's okay they disappear or
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ignore
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you people who pretend to care usually
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show affection just to get
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something once they get what they want
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their affection disappears again
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how to protect
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yourself pay attention if someone's
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kindness only shows up when they need
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something real affection is steady not
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based on needs or
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favors three their affection feels too
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quick or too
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intense real affection usually builds
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slowly and naturally
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fake affection often feels rushed or too
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strong from the
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beginning if someone says they love you
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or care deeply right after meeting you
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that's a red
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flag
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why because real feelings grow with
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time fake affection tries to quickly
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create strong feelings to control or
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impress you
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experts call this love bombing and it's
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used to make you trust someone
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quickly easy way to spot
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it if their affection seems too strong
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too soon slow
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down real feelings don't need to
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rush four their affection changes a lot
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have you noticed someone's affection
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changing all the
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time one day they're sweet the next day
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they're cold or
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distant this confusing behavior is a big
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sign of fake
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affection people who fake affection
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often can't keep up the
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act they become inconsistent which
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leaves you feeling unsure or
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worried real affection is steady and
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stable
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important
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tip if someone's affection changes often
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step back and watch
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carefully real affection doesn't go up
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and down
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constantly five they don't listen or
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remember important
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things does it seem like someone never
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remembers things you say or doesn't
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really listen when you talk
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real affection means caring about
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someone's life feelings and
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ideas people who truly care about you
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will remember important details because
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they matter to
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them fake affection means the person
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isn't genuinely
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interested they pretend to listen but
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they don't remember because it's not
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important to them
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what you should look
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for see if they remember little things
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about you or your
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life if they don't it might be fake
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affection six their affection feels like
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a
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show have you ever felt someone's
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affection seems too dramatic or
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exaggerated especially around other
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people
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maybe they act very caring in public but
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when you're alone they ignore or
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mistreat
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you people who fake affection often do
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this for approval or attention from
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others they want to look good in public
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but privately they don't show the same
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care how to test this
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pay attention to how someone treats you
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when no one else is
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around real affection feels genuine even
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without an
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audience seven you feel tired or sad
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around them
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often your feelings can tell you a
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lot if someone's affection is fake you
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might feel emotionally tired confused or
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sad around them often
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real affection makes you feel happy safe
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and
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secure fake affection leaves you feeling
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drained or worried because something
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feels
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wrong our minds and bodies sense when
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something isn't right even if we can't
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explain why
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clearly important advice you need
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remember trust your gut feeling
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if you often feel bad after being around
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someone their affection might not be
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real what makes people fake
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affection simple
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explanation people often fake affection
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because they want something from you or
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they fear being
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alone sometimes they're afraid to show
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who they truly are so they pretend
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instead it doesn't always mean they're
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bad people but it does mean you should
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be
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careful understanding this helps you
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protect
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yourself you deserve real affection not
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fake gestures or empty
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words how to protect yourself from fake
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affection easy steps
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step one set clear
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boundaries decide what behaviors you're
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comfortable
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with don't be afraid to say no if
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something doesn't feel
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right step two pay attention to actions
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over
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words always watch what people do not
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just what they
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say step three take things slow
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don't rush into close
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relationships give time to build trust
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and real
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feelings step four talk to someone you
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trust share your feelings with a friend
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or family
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member they might see things you
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can't step five listen to your feelings
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your heart often knows when something
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feels
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wrong trust that
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feeling why real affection
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matters real affection gives happiness
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security and emotional
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health you feel safe valued and
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respected
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fake affection causes stress sadness and
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emotional
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hurt knowing the difference helps you
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choose relationships that make you
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stronger happier and
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healthier let's quickly review how to
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spot fake affection clearly and
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simply words don't match
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actions affection shown only when they
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need something
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feelings are too strong too
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fast behavior changes
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often they don't remember important
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things about
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you affection feels like a show for
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others you often feel sad or tired
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around
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them final thoughts
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you deserve honest real
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affection you don't have to accept fake
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love or fake
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care spotting fake affection early helps
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you protect your heart value yourself
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more and build healthier
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relationships have you ever experienced
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fake affection
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which signs have you noticed in the
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past tell us your story in the
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comments your experiences can help
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others avoid emotional
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pain if you found this video helpful
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please hit the like button subscribe for
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more clear helpful relationship advice
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and share this video to help someone
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else protect their heart too
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thanks for watching stay strong and
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we'll see you soon
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