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have you ever found yourself attracted
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to someone you know you shouldn't
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be it can feel confusing awkward and
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scary In this video I'll share eight
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clear signs you're attracted to someone
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you shouldn't be and I'll show you
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exactly what you can do to stop these
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feelings before they cause problems
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Stay until the end because sign number
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eight is the most important one and
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knowing it can help protect your
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one you can't stop thinking about
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them The first sign is simple They're
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You wake up thinking about them go to
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sleep thinking about them and they pop
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day Even though you know it's wrong your
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stop This happens because we often want
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have Recognize this early to avoid
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two you feel guilty or anxious around
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them Have you noticed feeling nervous
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guilty or even uncomfortable when this
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around maybe your heart beats faster or
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you feel embarrassed and
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awkward Your emotions are telling you
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something important deep down you know
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this attraction isn't right for
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three you try too hard to impress
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them If you're always trying to look
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good or act differently around them
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sign you wear nicer clothes when they'll
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see you laugh louder at their jokes or
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do things you normally wouldn't
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But ask yourself why am I trying so
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hard if there's someone you shouldn't be
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attracted to trying to impress them only
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makes things harder for
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secret Think about this Have you ever
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told anyone about how you really
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feel or is it a secret you keep deep
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inside because you know people might
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you hiding your feelings is a big
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sign Secrets usually mean you know
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something isn't right and your mind is
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protecting you from getting
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You notice every little thing they
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do When you're attracted to someone you
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shouldn't be you pay extra attention to
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every tiny detail about
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them You notice their new hairstyle
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their favorite food or even how they
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laugh You remember these little details
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Why because your mind is looking for
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reasons to justify your attraction even
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though it might not be good for
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six you compare other people to
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them Another big sign is comparing other
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people to this person
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No one else seems good enough because in
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your mind you've built them up into
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amazing You ignore their faults and only
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see the best parts even if reality is
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different Be careful This can make it
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even harder for you to move
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seven you ignore red flags
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If you're attracted to someone you
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shouldn't be you often ignore the bad
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them Maybe they're not kind honest or
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respectful Maybe they're already in a
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relationship But your mind finds ways to
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overlook these problems because your
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feelings are too strong
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ignoring red flags can lead to big
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eight you feel stuck and
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frustrated This is the most important
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sign If your attraction makes you feel
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stuck upset or frustrated it means your
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emotions know something isn't right
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You want to stop feeling this way but
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how Feeling stuck is your heart's way of
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saying it's time to face reality and
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change So far we've learned the signs
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you're attracted to someone you
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be But why does this happen in the first
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place here's the truth We're attracted
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to what's exciting different or even
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forbidden because it makes us feel
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alive But just because something feels
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exciting doesn't mean it's good for
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us Now let's talk about how to handle
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these tricky feelings clearly and
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easily How to overcome these
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feelings Step one accept your feelings
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It's okay to feel attracted even if it's
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someone you shouldn't
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yourself Instead accept that your
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feelings are real and remind yourself
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that feelings come and
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go Step two keep your
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distance Try spending less time around
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space Less contact means your feelings
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will become weaker over
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time Step three focus on
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yourself Spend more time doing things
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you love and less time thinking about
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person Focus on friends family hobbies
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and goals that make you feel good about
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Step four talk to someone you
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trust Sharing your feelings with a
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trusted friend or family member can help
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better They can also remind you why this
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attraction isn't healthy or right for
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you Step five remember your worth
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Remind yourself that you deserve a
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healthy positive relationship with
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someone who is available and right for
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you You deserve better than a
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relationship built on secrets guilt or
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pain It's normal to be attracted to the
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sometimes You're not alone
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But recognizing these signs early can
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save you from pain regret or damaged
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relationships Remember the right person
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will never make you feel anxious guilty
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frustrated They will make you feel
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valued That's the kind of attraction
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for Now I want to hear from you
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Have you ever been attracted to someone
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you knew wasn't right for
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you how did you handle
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below Your experiences could help
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someone else who's going through the
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