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My husband insists I change my phone number
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Apr 21, 2025
I am trying to understand why many men always insist that their wives must loose their old phone number and get a new one. let's discuss via the comments. #nekenwatv
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someone should help me and explain this
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because for quite some time now I've
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been taking my time to ask myself this
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very question why do a lot of men find
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it interesting to control their wives
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like why do they think that the best
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thing that can do for them in a marriage
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is their ability to control how their
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wives reason how their wives operate and
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how they do their things how on the
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earth can a man who just got married to
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a
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woman come out and tell the woman that
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she has to lose her old phone number and
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get a new
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one that what he wants is he just want a
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complete new being he doesn't want his
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wife to have anything relationship any
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relationship again with her previous
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life why why why do some men reason that
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way
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i've I've experienced it like I've seen
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a lot of women who who have in one way
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or the other had an argument with their
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husbands as a result of this they they
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got married and their husband insisted
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that they must they must lose their old
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phone numbers and get a new one that he
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wouldn't want he wouldn't want the wife
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to go back to her previous life maybe if
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maybe she had boyfriends before they got
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married or maybe stuffs like that that
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she would now he also forgot the very
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fact that this phone number this lady
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has been using for a long time is like
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it's like a part of her life just like
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the way his own phone number is part of
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his own life and I'm asking if the woman
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must lose her phone number before the
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phone number she she was using before
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they got married would the man in
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question two lose his own phone number
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no he will not the only person that he
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thinks is in the best position to lose
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her phone number is the woman which is
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which is which is uncalled for which is
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uncalled for i'm not saying this to
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start raising unnecessary shoulders in
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any family but I'm saying this to every
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man out there if you want your wife to
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lose her old phone number it will make a
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lot of sense you sit her down and the
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both of you have a mutual understanding
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for why you want her to lose the old
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phone number but if your reasons are are
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centralized on jealousy or or anything
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unreasonable then I don't see any reason
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why you should tell your wife to lose
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her old phone number is is a very big
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red flag and it doesn't portray maturity
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a woman who has been using a phone
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number for a long period of time the
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same phone number she she has been using
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it to communicate with her with her
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business partners her families her
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friends then you are telling her that
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because she's now married she has to
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change the phone
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number what kind of level of jealousy is
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that a lot of women have have faced that
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in their
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marriages okay a lot of women have faced
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that in their marriages the very
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question I'm asking is the man who is
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telling the lady to change her phone
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number does he in any way have the
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intention of changing his own phone
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number does he have the intention of
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changing his own phone number the answer
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is no it's a very big no even though
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okay even though in fact it is very rare
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to get a man who wants to change his
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phone number because he's he's now
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married is very rare but a good
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population of them would want their
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wives to lose their old phone numbers
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because of jealousy because there's no
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other thing there's no other reason if
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not for jealousy except maybe the woman
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had a very dangerous past let's say her
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past was so dangerous and it's nothing
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to write home about at all and there
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there is a very huge need for she to
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change that number then we can start
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looking at that and say okay this is the
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right thing the moment you you don't
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have any cogent reason for why she
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choose she should lose her phone number
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it therefore means that that marriage
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you just want to be exercising the full
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control if the woman wants to go out you
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you must insist or to know where she's
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going to well it's normal for husband
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and wife to be accountable to each other
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if the husband is going out he tells the
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wife I'm going out see where I'm going
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the woman will know exactly where you're
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going to the same is also applicable to
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the
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Okay if the woman wants to go out the
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husband tells the husband "Babe I want
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to go to somewhere i want to let where
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you're going to." You just be
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accountable so that when as you are
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going out your husband or your wife will
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know where you're going to and maybe if
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you do not come back he knows where to
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find you do you get it but this you must
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not go anywhere you must be in this no
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no no no no it's not a it's not a better
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way to live your happy
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home so this just came up because I my
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neighbors I I noticed that one of my
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neighbors who newly got married and like
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their marriage is not up to a week
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they're having a very serious fight he's
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having a very serious fight with his
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wife that she must change her previous
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phone number that she must change her
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previous she must change her phone
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number to a new one that she doesn't
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like he doesn't like the kind of people
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that are calling her or the kind of way
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she makes phone call and so on what kind
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of excuse is that i don't know have you
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had this kind of experience please feel
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free to tell us by the comment section
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