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Why you shouldn't settle for a HOUSEWIFE
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Apr 19, 2025
This video discusses the reason it is unwise to settle for a housewife or nurturing the desire to be a housewife. #nekenwatv
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so this evening I decided to talk about
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some of these brothers that uh that
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insist that whenever they get married or
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if they finally get in fact since they
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are married their wives are not free to
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do any jobs they their only work is to
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stay at home get
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pregnant to bed take care of their
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children in fact they are not working
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but most of everything is that the wives
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that they marry will not work and I keep
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on asking myself why on earth some men
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end up making such kind of a decision
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well I understand that this is their
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money okay they have the money and they
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have what it takes to take care of a
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woman but the big question is and it
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remains have they taken their time to
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ask some questions like what
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if you know you know sometimes you may
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be thinking about something then at a
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time you come back with a different
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question bothering on that thing you are
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thinking about a question that starts
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with what
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if like I said it's not a bad idea for
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you to stop your wife from working it's
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never a bad idea but it's a very
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dangerous idea from my own side if I
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must tell you the reason is this like I
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said you always need to ask yourself
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what if what if as you are walking and
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it it happens that your source of
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livelihood somehow something happened to
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it and there's no money coming from
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anywhere
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again from where can you sustain
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yourself because you are no longer
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working and your wife has not been
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working ever since she got married to
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you so at this point in time do you
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think you are you you are safe like if
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if anything should happen to your
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business today and it it appears that
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you have gone bankrupt are you
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safe one your wife is not there a woman
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is supposed to be a pillar to her
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husband whenever the husband is falling
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she's she's there to hold him whether
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financially or emotionally she's always
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there like a life support when the young
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man is falling she's there at the back
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to pull him back up so imagine a
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situation where you stopped your wife
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entirely from getting a job
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and maybe something happened to your
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business if you are falling do you think
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there is anything back there at your
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back to hold you or to standing as your
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pillar of course nothing the way you
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will fall you will fall and you break
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into pieces that's just the the that's
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just the bitter truth there you will
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fall and break into pieces so imagine a
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man now that has a wife who is also
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working the wife the man's business
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crashed and there's no money coming from
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anywhere
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you will keep on living in soft because
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your wife will be there to back you up
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she'll be there understanding fully well
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that your own
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business is for for the time being
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having an issue an issue she'll be there
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to support you she'll be supporting you
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in one little way or the other until you
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bang back to your feet that is why you
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need to marry a wife who has something
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though a woman even though she doesn't
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have anything though try and teach her a
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job or try and get her a job or probably
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register her in any place at all where
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she can acquire a skill and start
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working cuz nobody knows tomorrow as
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long as we are human beings you can't
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tell what tomorrow holds and since you
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cannot tell about what tomorrow
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holds it therefore means that you just
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have to be prepared for anything so in
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order for you to be prepared for
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anything you need to allow your wife to
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walk let her make her own money maybe
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when things start going tough for you as
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a man she'll be there to stand in for
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you and support you i hope this video
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helps i hope this video has gotten to
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some people i know that maybe you have
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your own argument okay you may decide
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you may have your own argument feel free
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to tell us by the comment section we'll
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be there to listen to you until I see us
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in our next video do well to have a
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lovely time of the
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