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Every parents should listen to this my story
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Apr 7, 2025
Parents and aspiring parents should take their time and listen to this my story as it will be of great help to them. #nekenwatv #personalexperiences #lifestyle
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if you are a parent you need to see this
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video you need to take your time settle
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down and hear this story now in this
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compound this place this is where I live
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all right so this is where I live in
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this compound I notice that there are
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two families there are two parents of
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different families that are not in
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talking terms with each other
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i noticed that this one they they had a
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misunderstanding a particular night and
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the next day they stopped talking to
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each other now while I was in a
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conversation with one of them we were
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just talking not just as normal
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neighbors then
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one I was just with one of them that had
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issues last night then one of them that
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is one of the persons that he was having
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issues
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with started pass he passed and entered
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the compound then the son the son of the
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person I was justing with greeted the
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person that passed and the moment he did
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that the next thing I heard was him
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shunning that child he
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shown he shown the child never to try
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that again never to greet that man
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again now he cannot he cannot he cannot
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be greeting somebody who has declared
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himself his enemy i was like for
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real i was like are you for real so if
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you are having an issue with somebody
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does it in any way mean that you have to
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drag your own child into your
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misunderstanding with your fellow
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man it's very very
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unfortunate how on earth can you be
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having a misunderstanding with your
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fellow
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man that is to tell you that I'm in
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Africa so the bird sound you're hearing
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entails the real fact or in fact it
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explains where I am already
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so I'm I'm still wondering why should
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you be having an argument with your
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fellow man and you think it is wise
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enough for you to drag your own child
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into
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it this is one of the things that goes a
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long way in destroying our society
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because the moment he did that the
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little boy said he was sorry and went
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into the room now he has already passed
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a negative message to that child and
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that message is when next you see this
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man never you greet him
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again never you greet him again he
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therefore means that he has now created
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an automatic enemy for his son that is
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the truth he has
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declared that man to be an automatic
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enemy to his son and he's unwise he's
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very very unwise
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how on earth why on earth must you do
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such a thing your son that has no idea
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of how you started your argument in fact
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I'm talking about a 3-year-old boy he
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doesn't know anything that has to do
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with your argument in
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fact he's not supposed to know about it
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but now you've made him believe that it
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is a normal thing or it is a good thing
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for you to declare any person who is not
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in talking terms with your family an
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enemy of your family and also your own
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enemy that is the message he has passed
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to this child and if this boy grow up
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with this kind of mentality it continues
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to belittle Africa it continues to bring
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down African
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reputation our mentality will continue
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to remain at ground
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zero somebody who is supposed to be in a
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very good relationship with another
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person but because of what he learned
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from his family it skyrocket the child
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begin to begin to behave just like the
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same way the parent has programmed his
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sense of reasoning
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i hope you as a parent watching this
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video is hearing what I am saying in
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conclusion if you are having a
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misunderstanding with anybody your child
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or your children shouldn't be involved
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as an adult you settle your dispute with
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with your fellow
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adult personally
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you don't drag the children into it
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because if you drag the children into it
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and you finally reconciled the question
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is have the children forgotten about
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it have they forgotten about it you may
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have reconciled but have they reconciled
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that's the question have the children
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reconciled so take your time work
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on how you do your things around
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children and work on how you try to
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discipline them
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or the things you do in the name of
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discipline the children i hope this
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video helps i'll be seeing us in our
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