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My Husband Is 6ft 11' - I Was Terrified | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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May 20, 2025
JAMES and Saya have a big height difference. Speaking to Love Don't Judge, Saya admitted, "I was terrified when I first met him. He's a foot and ten inches taller than me." Their contrasting heights mean that the couple are often judged online. "People think that I'm a child and he's weird for wanting to be with someone so small," Saya explained. The pair also caused a stir when they got married out of the blue. James said, "We got married at a young age, so lots of judgement on that part." In this episode, they will be having a discussion with James' friend, Tyshaun, to find out how he felt when their pair tied the knot. Tyshaun told James, "Yo, you're a trash friend. I can't sit here and say I was happy!"
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I'm 6'11"
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I'm 5'1 1⁄2". People think that I'm a child and that he's weird for wanting to be with somebody who's so small
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I got married at a young age, so lots of judgment on that part
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Yo, you a trash friend. I can't sit here and say I was happy. Let's get started
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I'm Sia, and this is my husband, James, and I was terrified when I first met him
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He is a foot and 10 inches taller than me. um can you get the plates if i break them i got you
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thank you we met online on discord i joined the server i had no friends but i wanted to make
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friends that were 18 and older like me we just kind of started you know talking from there
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if i'm in the laundry room and i'm trying to get the like detergent it's on the top shelf
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James, come help me. He's like, okay, yeah. Or like having to get any plates or anything or cereal
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Yeah, he'll help me out. I should just put things lower, but it's okay though
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It's okay. I'm sorry. It's just instinct. I grew up in a tall household
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Everybody could reach everything. It's been about like three to four years since we met
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We got married six months ago. We got married at a young age
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I'm 23. She's 22. a lot of eyes on the fact that we got married as early as we did
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So lots of, lots of judgment on that part. We also received judgment for the way that we got married
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You know, it's understandable. It was meant to just be a little bit of a, like a private thing
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My friend Tashan, he will be coming on over today. I think you've done a pretty good job, you know, making this spread right here
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I know he likes his chicken, but we don't got that. He'll live
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We vegetarians. He gonna have to take what we got right now
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Plus he's almost here. So I don't, I can't really do too much in such short time
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He will be expressing his opinion and will not be holding back as he normally does
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That's just completely in his character. He's been very transparent when it comes to our relationship
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Hello, Ty. I know we've touched on this a little bit before
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Like what was your genuine feelings when I called you up and I just told you
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you know, that I got married? After we haven't been talking for like months. Yo, you a trash friend
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To be real with you, bro, I can't sit here and say I was happy. I mean, I was happy for you, most definitely
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I'll never sit there and deny your success or deny your happiness. But we hadn't talked till like 12 months at that point, bro
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And you was ghost. You was off the face of the earth And I get a call at like 7 p The last time we talked me and sam was in a rough spot yeah we married now what am i supposed to say and i heard you guys had the ceremony
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and i wasn't even invited so i i give it to you bro i'm still happy for you i'm so happy that you
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guys is bonded strong but bruh i'm sorry it was it was an intense training arc that's the best
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thing I could say. The income from most people was bittersweet. Feelings about not being there
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and then congratulations with being married. A lot of people felt hurt. It comes with the turf
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bro. What you guys, you know, did, it's a very bold move. I could wear it as a dress. Yes
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like, I don't know, pantsuit or something. When we first met, I didn't even know how he looked
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He didn't know how I look. I'm 6'11". I'm 5'1 and a half, but..
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She's 5'1". I'll say 5'2". I'll say 5'2". These are so small
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I'm sorry. I'm sorry. At first when he told me over a Discord, I thought he was insane
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I was just like, okay, whatever. Sure, you're 6'11". Sure, if you want to be that, you're that
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I didn't really care, honestly. I didn't think about it until I met him in person for the first time
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And I was like, is that him? Of course that's him, but like, what the heck? I was baffled
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I was terrified. I was terrified. Yes. All right, James, go change into your outfit
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It's missing a belt, but I can do my math. Make it work. When I first met James, I felt like his style was, it wasn't bad
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It was just lacking a little. He was wearing all kinds of colors. He didn't really know how to match, which is fine
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But after I've met him and we've been together and everything, he's better at color coordinating and everything
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Yes. Ba-ba-boom. Oh, you look so cute. I'll take it because I didn't know that you could put flannels and hoodies together until you told me
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And I like opened like a whole new world to my style. You did a great job picking on my outfit
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Oh, thank you. Oh, you're welcome. Oh, I will be back. I can't put a name on her style because it is her style
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She always looks good in whatever she puts on. even if it's a super casual fit
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I just don't understand how she does it. You look great, baby
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It's giving. It's giving. It's giving. It's giving. It's giving. Thank you. I was not at all expecting to be with somebody so tall
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At all. I'm gonna spin you now. Me? Spin. Yes Yes And people say a lot of stuff A lot of crazy stuff Not the peace sign Not the peace sign
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Yes, it's like how we're outside and we do our little videos. No, not the dance, not the dance either
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Just normal, just normal. Having to see you can F that little dog all the time in the comment section
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On the growth of our journey. And even now, it's insane. I thought that was her dad
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Nah, that's crazy. Why would you do that to someone that's a child? How about a child
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Uncle, why are you dressed as a woman? That's a boy and a boy. This is a little illegal
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My fault. I didn't know that I couldn't pursue romance legally. People think that I'm a child and that he's weird for wanting to be with somebody
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who's so small and clearly something's wrong with him because he wants to be with someone
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who's not his own size. That's right there. It sucks, but it's like, you know
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people are going to have their opinions and I just feel like they're very closed-minded
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If you asked me the same question, like maybe two years ago, I would have been like, oh my gosh, like I'm just so tired of people commenting
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No, but I'm very used to it at this point. So it is what it is. They just kind of give us more engagement
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which is okay. There's been some times where, you know, I've had to come support you
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because of the comments and stuff of that nature. So it's definitely aided to us becoming stronger
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What did you think of, you know, when me and Sam first got together? Thought you was going to mess it up
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I don't think you should ever open up with you a 6 out of 10 to any woman or man
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I think that's going to continue off as a beautiful relationship. But you guys, with the will of God
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surprised through everything that I personally thought was going to happen for your relationship
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And you truly have found stronger together. I personally thought it was going to be just another couple months of happy, sweet romance
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And then you guys are going to send it or you guys would just go with it
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But neither of that happened. You guys truly got way stronger than I could ever think and got married
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So that's a different thing in itself. Thank you. We appreciate that
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I feel like we should sit here and mention the fact that me, you weren't exactly Christian when we first met, bro
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So how was your conversion to Christianity? Oh, when I first met James
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the first thing I told him was I will never date you. I know that sounds horrible, okay, wait
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I just said, I don't date people who aren't Christian. And I said my beliefs are my beliefs yours are yours All we do is play games together and have fun One day i decided to kind of ask her hey are you trying to play some games it was a saturday and she told
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me that she couldn't she explained to me that it was her sabbath day you know that she couldn't
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play because it didn't honor or glorify god in any way so i decided i was going to join her
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from there everything just kind of like spiraled into me just kind of learning more about christianity
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that's really like the best reason as to why i decided christianity was the way to go my friends
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you know they they were also cool with it too but you know they were just kind of a little resistant
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to some of my changes that i had going on you know which made sense because i wouldn't do certain
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things that i used to do my family they were a little skeptical but they've been more than
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supportive you remember when i was first going through those changes and the first thing you
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said to me is that you didn't like it. You didn't like how I was changing. You felt like I was
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becoming a different person. And I was becoming a different person. I didn't like the fact that
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you was changing. And that was mostly because there was a fear in me, a very real fear in me
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that I was going to lose my best friend. But slowly I realized that that fear wasn't me losing you
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that fear was me losing out on growing what do you think about our relationship now i got more
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faith than you bro i truly don't believe that there's any chance you guys are gonna separate
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i don't you guys are truly truly better off now than i've ever seen before and i've seen james go
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through many relationships thank you for coming through and that's all i'm gonna take you guys out
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I appreciate it That would be nice Love you Have a good one man Bye
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It was nice to see him It was nice Your personality is original
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The best thing I can always say is You are authentically yourself
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That's why I love you I never felt so safe in a relationship ever
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I'm just very thankful to have you in my life I would say personally to those who
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judge us. That's okay, that's your opinion. That's not going to change the way we love each other
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Thank you for the support. Even though you're judging, it's still a form of support because
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you bring more views. So thank you
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