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"I married a MONSTER" ISIS as case study and what women should learn.
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Jun 7, 2025
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hi welcome to sanus and I don't want to
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talk too much I just want to get
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straight to the point and as you know
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people who watch my videos you know that
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my YouTube channel my content it's all
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about women empowerment but I'm not um
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I'm not someone who's afraid to also
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point out some of the mistakes that not
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even some but all of the mistakes that
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us as women also do that could be the
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one leading us to some of the situations
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that we're facing so with isis's
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um situation this is very different
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because children are involved but there
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are also some other things that I want
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to get out of out of my head
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that I want to tell Isis like but girl
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girl girl girl you you saw the red flags
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you saw the red flags and I don't blame
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you I don't blame you maybe you saw this
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rich guy cuz this is what you've been
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pursuing um I'm saying this because of
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I've been watching your videos and
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you've made some videos about how to how
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to beg a rich man how to date rich man
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stuff like that so it it it's obvious
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that your husband your monster husband
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is Rich so now I'm asking you um by the
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time he violated you he said that um he
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did that to you um in early stages of
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your marriage and I'm asking myself why
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did you keep continuing being with this
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person knowing that you have children
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knowing that they they are not as nice
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as you hoped that be what were you
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thinking about your children's safety so
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okay to all the women and this is not
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only for young women cuz I I'm seeing
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people talking about yo young women they
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need to learn how no it's not only for
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young women but all types of women
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whether you have a child or you don't
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have a child ladies we can't always just
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be so desperate so desperate that we we
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ignore all the other things but we just
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want to grab and beg this man who's got
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this money we we can't be that desperate
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we cannot be that desperate for a soft
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life I'm not saying women should not
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want a soft life for them no that would
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be ridiculous like hey what am I saying
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I'm not saying that but I'm saying be
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smart be smart Isis um I I saw some some
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some comments on Twitter somebody
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talking about um you and your husband
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being married within 2 weeks of dating
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something along those lines and I'm like
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girl yes I understand I understand that
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you know you're a special girl you know
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you're a beautiful woman and maybe you
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were like you know what if this man
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wants to marry me so soon then why not
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because why not like really why not but
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in this day and age in this day and age
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I I think there's been enough talks two
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wom and two men to date people who
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are who you know people you you've had
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and have given yourself time and chance
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to get to know now here you married this
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monster you'd never give yourself enough
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time to study this person and this is
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the mistake that um most women do most
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men most women look at man when he's got
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money to them he's everything because
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he's he has this money the first
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question that you supposed to ask
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yourself well if you have all of this
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money and yes I know I'm a pretty woman
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and you love me that's what you say then
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why so soon why you rushing why so soon
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like what's happening these are the type
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of questions that you should be you
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should be asking yourself yes I know you
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you know you're special but I don't
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think it's such a bad thing to ask
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yourself like okay sir why can't you why
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can't you just chill a bit but for
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someone who wants to bag who wants to
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bag that rich man so quick I I I truly
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understand but stuff like this um as
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women we can only learn from them you
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know you don't have to experience stuff
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for you to learn you know so I'm just
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hoping that um women who are coming
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across this this um Isis video I'm
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hoping that we learned something from
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this we learned something from this and
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what is that a person having money and
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wanting to marry you so quick it doesn't
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mean that they love you I know at the
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time you probably be thinking but
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there's so many other pretty girls out
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there why is he choosing me he must
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truly do love me that's why he wants to
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marry me so early but girl you don't
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even know why he's doing that you have
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ch children you have daughters and he's
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probably doing that
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because he wants access to your
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children he wants access to your
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children so the best way to do that the
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best way to for him to get you under his
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roof and your daughters and your sons
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under his roof is to marry you and keep
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you there so I think it's also a very
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good thing that Isis is she's not such
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um an ignorant type of a parent she she
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saw some signs she was looking at her
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child and she saw some redness and
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that's when she she was like wo baby is
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somebody touching you and the child was
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like yes it's Daddy oh my God I saw that
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video and she said when when she said
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that the the the child said it's steady
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I I could just see the tears flowing
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down from her eyes she was so hurt she's
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crying and that really touched me I'm
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like sir sir the children are supposed
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to be safe with you you you're supposed
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to be a protector but you are the
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monster the
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monster and you've been staying with oh
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my God okay
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so this is this is this is this is this
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is bad this is very bad this is really
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bad and man I'm just hoping that as time
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goes on and on is say she has more more
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courage to move on from this and I truly
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truly truly hope that the children
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heal I truly hope that they they heal I
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I truly hope that
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um something gets to happen for them to
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to heal and when I say children I'm not
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only talking about the two girls that
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were violated I'm also talking about the
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sons because they they they they they
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were around such a monster we don't even
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know what he did to them you don't even
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know what he did what he was teaching
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them so and oh my god um I watched this
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video I forgot her name she she said
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that um all she kept thinking to herself
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is okay sir if you did that if you did
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these things that you did to my
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daughters what did you do to all the
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other kids who've been here and I'm like
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wo okay now
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sir like also that would really concern
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me finding out that I've been around
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with such a person that would really
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concern me I would really ask myself of
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all the children who've been maybe
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visiting um my kids if I had kids at the
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time I would ask myself has he even
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touched those
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children because wow this is this is
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very bad this is very bad so ladies we
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need to learn to make our own bag cuz
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you now see you now see chasing people's
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bags do you see what it comes with do
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you see what it comes with and there are
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some some um comments that I I saw under
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isis's um video and somebody
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said
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um when you have children you should
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stop going out there and looking for men
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when you have to protect and okay I get
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what the person is saying and they
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probably said that out of frustration
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but I'm also thinking to myself does
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this man does this mean thing does this
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mean that um women single moms should
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now not ever be in relationships because
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they have children to protect can't you
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have both can't you have a healthy
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relationship and can't you have your
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children so so if we going to have
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people who are saying women should stop
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dating stop doing that and not saying
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men should change then we are living in
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a monster world because why is a woman
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being blamed for trying out this dating
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thing for trying to to have a stable
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home for herself and a children why
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can't we ask the man why can't we talk
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to the man why can't we talk to the
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monster why are you doing this why did
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you do that
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and they need to pay they need to pay so
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man I'm so sick and tired of people who
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are also lacking sympathy for her and
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listen I I understand somewhere somehow
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what they say what they mean cuz I'm
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also frustrated because girl there were
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signs but because of this bag because of
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this bag that you was seeing you wanted
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to grab this bag for yourself you wanted
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to grab this bag for yourself and you
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grabbed it and now look and when I say
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you grabbed it I'm not just saying you
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grabbed it out of not um having seen
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anything wrong this man he showed you he
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showed you what he's capable of doing
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but you still went on he he showed you
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that you can't be safe with him because
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he can hurt you he can violate you but
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you still went on with everything
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putting your whole family and I'm
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talking about your children your your
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daughters and your sons at risk because
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of this man so we need to really tone
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down the desperation of wanting that
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soft life because at what cost look look
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now the children have this trauma the
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2-year-old one maybe she might forget
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you don't know there are children with
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very good a memory who remember from a
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very young age I'm one of those people
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and think about the one who's
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four that's trauma that's trauma and
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it's there for life and I'm really
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hoping that as time goes on the children
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heal
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emotionally and all everything and
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everyone just heals but for that monster
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for that monster I even saw a picture I
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saw a picture of you and him I think
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it's a wedding picture and he looks like
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a very old man he looks like a very old
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man I just hope that he goes to jail I
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just hope that he gets he gets what he's
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been doing I guess he I'm just hoping
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that they do him exactly what he did to
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the children cuz he deserves it and oh
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boy I think they're going to do it I
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heard that's what happens there so man
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as as women we also have to learn we
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have to learn that W and one of the
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things that frustrate me about this
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thing with Isis is that
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she she kept making these videos about
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how to how to beg a rich
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man she kept going on and on with that
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content even after um being shown by
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this man what he's capable of doing so
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she's making this content talking to
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other women how to beg this man how to
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without just changing maybe I don't know
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changing the type of content that wo
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ladies you need to be careful you need
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to be careful if you're going to pursue
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a man like this you need to be careful
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because of this and that she didn't do
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that she just kept going for Content
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because I'm thinking maybe that's the
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content that was getting more viewers so
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we need to learn we need to learn how to
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be thoughtful we need to learn how to be
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thoughtful and not always be blinded by
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the bag there are so so many women who
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who
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have gone through things they did not
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even need to go through because of being
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blinded by the bag so this is an eye
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opener to to to to so many people this
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is an eye opener and there's this other
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tweet I saw and this person he or she I
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think it's a woman I think it's a woman
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yeah it is a woman and she said
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something so stupid she said that um
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what happens to Isis and her
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daughters it's all the consequences of
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um following Shir is it Shir or Shar
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seven um dark
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femininity
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um I don't know something sort of some
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and then she's like yeah so that's the
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price you pay and I'm like girl this is
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not the time for that
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why are you even blaming sherah I don't
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know if it's Sher or Shir I'm not sure
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but yeah why are you blaming her why are
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you blaming her what did she do I mean
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on that Isis video Isis did not even
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mention anything about Shir she did not
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mention anything about her so what do
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everything that involves children being
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sexually violated what does it have to
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do with Shar and where's the empathy why
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what why why are you just tweeting for
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engagement when this topic is so
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sensitive so it's this type of people
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man like if you don't have anything
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better or constructive to say don't
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don't tweet don't text don't do don't do
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that stupid thing just keep quiet but as
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for us women I just wanted to get it out
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there that we need to be very careful we
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need to be very careful no matter how
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desperate you are no matter how how bad
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you want that soft life for yourself
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please please
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please be vigilant be vigilant and take
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your time take your time before you
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marry someone take your time before you
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marry don't don't be so desperate don't
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be so desperate you don't need um a man
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you really don't need a man and
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oh this is this is so heartbreaking even
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she she can't stop crying on that video
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she just can't stop crying cuz this
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thing it's it's painting her and I can
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see that she's filled with
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some some parts of her is filled with
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regrets cuz she saw this she saw the
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signs she she saw that this is not a
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good man and I I I can just imagine um
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when he if he treated the daughters like
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this um um how is he treating her when
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she's already his wife you know how was
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he treating her knowing that okay this
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is my wife and I provide everything for
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her and oh my God this is very sad and
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I'm so happy I'm so happy that she she
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got this braveness about her that she
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she got out and say like hey hey hey hey
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this is what happened to me because so
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many women believe it or not so many
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women would have kept quiet would have
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kept quiet knowing that their daughters
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are being violated sexually at home by
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the husband there are so many women
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who've come out um talking about how
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their mothers knew that Daddy is
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touching them that Uncle is touching
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them all because daddy is a bread winner
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or uncle is a bread winner so man Big
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Ups to Isis for being being so brave and
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sharing this message and sharing her
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story and I truly hope that um something
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gets done I truly hope that's something
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that gets done but as she said that she
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took the children to the hospital and
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they got evaluated so there must be very
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solid evidence and proof to show that
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this monster needs to go to jail but
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yeah man she she did a very good thing
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she she did did a very brave thing and
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how she went about it how she planned
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how she executed the plan that was
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really beautiful because anything would
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have happened he this rich man he might
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have panicked and thinking to himself oh
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my God if I if I let this happen then
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I'm going to lose everything I've worked
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hard for and just end up killing the
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whole family so she she really became
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smart about how she handled this whole
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thing and yeah yeah man yeah so ladies
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ladies before I close down this video
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let me repeat this we need to be very
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Vigilant whether you have a child or not
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yes you are special yes you are
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beautiful girly but you need to be
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asking yourself questions why is this
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man so in a rush to even marry me you
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know I'm not saying you must question if
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you are even worthy no you are worthy
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you are worthy of marriage but why are
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they so quick they don't even know you
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so what is it about you that intrigued
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them so much that in two weeks they want
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to marry you cuz now you see in Isis
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case I can say that he did that because
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he saw that okay this is a young mother
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who's got daughters and she's vulnerable
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she wants this back because let me tell
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you one thing rich men are not dumb rich
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men are not dumb because you can just
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think of how many types of women they
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come across they come across all types
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of gold diggers so they know they know
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women they know women so he he he might
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have been like oh so this one is she she
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wants this I can give it to her but then
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I'm going to take this from her so do
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you see now what he took so ladies we
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need to be very Vigilant we need to be
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very smart we need to take our times to
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get to know people first before giving
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them that
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that part of us that we will never
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regain because this is this is trauma
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this is something that happened that can
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never be undone but as for the monster
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he needs to pay a heavy price he needs
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to pay a heavy price um going to jail is
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not enough for what he did but I hope
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that in jail the man in jail they make
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him pay I don't know maybe they must
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make him a little
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whatever they must make him a wife in
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there and do whatever they want to do to
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him the way he did with the daughters
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like 2 year and a 4year old
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like
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what what this
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is
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bad I'm cutting this video um yeah I've
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said what I wanted to say
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so yeah man just share with us on the
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comments what do you think what do you
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think about this whole thing and I I'm
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I'm truly sorry if I've said maybe
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something that would have
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maybe um being insensitive but I also
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believe in
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women being honest with themselves and
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that is my question to Isis Isis why
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didn't you bounce as soon as you saw
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that this man is capable of such a bad
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thing why didn't you leave then why why
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didn't you leave then so again everybody
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thank you so much for watching this
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video and share with us what you what
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you think on the comment section and
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yeah man toodles bye
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