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Its Not a Family Generational Curse, You're Lazy
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Jun 5, 2025
Its Not a Family Generational Curse, You're Lazy
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I I want to say something which not so
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many people are going to like but hey I
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don't care truth be told I I I've come
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to realize that um so many families they
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hide
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behind um family curse family curse
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family curse you can't tell me that so
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many families are cursed and every
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family has to have that curse breaker no
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no no if I'm being honest what I see
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here is that some families are not
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cursed they are just lazy and if you are
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a mother or a father or parents and you
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guys are lazy your children are going to
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learn that and the children's children
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are going to learn that so we can't say
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that is a curse cuz it started with the
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parents not working hard enough not
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being active not cleaning the house I'm
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mentioning cleaning the house because
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there's a video that I've seen on Tik
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Tok of this lady who was genuinely so
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tired of living with her family because
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of how dirty the whole house was like it
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was dirty it was dirty it was smelly
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because you could see the Flies flying
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all around everything was light up the
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kitchen
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oh my God it it was like a truck came
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and just stumped trash in the kitchen
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and she had her room that was cleaned
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she she lived in the same house but she
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has a room her own room it's clean she's
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trying by all means to
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to to to to live in a clean space but
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she can't take care of the whole house
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when so many people are making the house
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dirty
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so she also was like you know what I'm
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not going to be cleaning this house
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anymore if I'm going to clean any place
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here it's going to have to be my room
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because nobody wants to help me to clean
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the house so I just saw a case of um
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parents who who are just
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severely
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lazy lazy lazy lazy and people we should
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not um beat around the bush about
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this um um some people are where they
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are and when I say where they are I'm
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talking about poverty and it's not
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because of a curse or they they are
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chosen one but they are currently um in
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a face where they are suffering no
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sometimes you are where you are because
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you are lazy and this is not for all the
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the the the poor families there are
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families which are very poor but the
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mother is trying the father is trying
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and you can see that this family the way
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they are trying if they could only get
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good um connections good job
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opportunities the change the situation
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is going to change drastically there are
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Fe there are families like that and
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there are families which you can see
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that actually these people they do have
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the resources but they are not taking
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care of the resources so it seems like
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they are in poverty but but Dad here you
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are you've got the legs you've got the
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arms you can do something you can do
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something mom here you are you can do
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something you can go out there and try
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to get a job but they don't do that they
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do not do that all they do is to wear
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the the the the the the political
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parties shirt at voting stations and
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they're like the government needs to do
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this government is the government is not
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going to save you the government is not
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going to save you so there are families
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who are poor just because they rely so
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much on the
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government at the time you are relying
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so much on the government saying you
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paying tax how much did you pay for
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tax this
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year does it even add to the amount of
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money the amount of money that you want
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um from the government h
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so the best thing that you we can do is
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to stop relying on the government the
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government does not care about us so
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this going back to the to my initial
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topic about being
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lazy
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um yeah man um some people are just in
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situations which they find themselves
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because of being lazy and nothing else
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nothing else and it becomes a habit for
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everyone you know you know habits
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are habits are
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dangerous and habits are beautiful
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too um good habits will take you far bad
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habits bad habits will take you to the
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ground will make you take your yourself
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to the ground so um habits years of
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habits um years of habits and having
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children they learn from you they see
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all of these things
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and you want to say that you're cursed
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no it's not a curse it's not CU if
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you're a father and what you do is to
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drink from Monday to Sunday Monday to
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Sunday Monday to Sunday and you going to
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have children why are you surprised that
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your children are doing the same thing
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that that you're doing they learn it
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from you so now the how the whole house
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is drinking alcohol no one is ever sober
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enough to to get things done in the
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house take care of the house make sure
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there's order in the house and then you
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want to call it a curse it's not a curse
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you are lazy and you try to build a home
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if you are lazy and try to build a home
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a home is going to reflect your home is
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going to reflect who you
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are so by the time your home is
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reflecting who you are and now you want
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to you want to call it a curse who
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cursed you who cursed the
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family who cursed the family if you just
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stood up
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and let's say it's a curse then stood up
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pray um do something surely something
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will change but some people don't even
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try some people don't even try so I'm
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going to talk to people who are watching
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this
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and who are coming
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from families which are
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cursed listen um you need to release
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yourself you need to release yourself
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from the curse you need to release
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yourself from the curse you have the
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power to do so you have the power to do
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so no one is so powerful to to hold
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everyone in the family under curse we
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are children of God we are made in the
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image of
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God God will never will never take us
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from heaven and put us on Earth and not
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give us as something within ourselves
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that can free us from situations like
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this you are not destined to be in a
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family that's cursed and
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again um why is it that people are are
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creating these whole things family curs
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curse and then there's got to be one
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person who's got to be
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sacrificed because I'm not going to lie
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if if you are a curse breaker then you
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are you are being sacrificed you're
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sacrificing yourself for your family is
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sacrificing you because
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um out of all people who' came and gone
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came and gone it had to be you to break
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this curse and at the time I've noticed
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that the curse breaking it it seems to
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always be about the money it's about
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making money making money making money
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buying a house buying
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no it's not that it's in here if you
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really want to break that curse you need
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to teach your family
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to to fight you need to teach them and
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break them out of that habit
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that habit they all keep doing which
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makes it look like now it's a curse when
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it's not a curse when you people are
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just repeating what you've seen from
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your grandmother your great grandmother
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your mother your
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whatever sometimes these are not curses
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they just a a family that just looked up
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to someone who's doing that thing and
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they all do it because they look up to
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that person and everyone now is doing
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this thing and now it's a cycle it's a
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cycle it's it's a natural thing it's not
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a curse it's not a curse and I'm going
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to also say something now which might be
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insensitive if you're someone who always
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feels like people have cursed you why do
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people always assume that people are
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cursing them what's so special about you
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what's so special about you that people
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are busy cursing you when they could be
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out there living their lives what's so
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special about you as if like you're the
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only one who's got this light inside of
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them what's so special about you why you
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why why did it have to you why did it
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have to be you who's
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cursed so we need to learn how to be
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accountable we need to learn how to
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differentiate between a curse and a lazy
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family and I can assure you that most
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people are just from lazy families and
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some of them they're not even lazy it's
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just that um people come
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from families which don't have a certain
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knowledge of stuff so what I'm saying is
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that if you are raised by parents who've
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Never Been Loved by their parents you
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are likely not to be you are likely to
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be raised by parents who are not going
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to know how to love you because they
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themselves where they come from they
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were not loved because those parents
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didn't love any the chances of these
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parents also coming from parents who who
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could not love them so I I understand I
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understand there are cases like that but
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there are also there other cases which
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are not like that and most of them are
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not like that sometimes this is just uh
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two people who are not ready to to have
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a family building a home with their
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their messed up um life routines
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building a home
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and having these children who look up to
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them only for the children to to mirror
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everything to mimic everything that the
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parents are doing and now boom what do
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we call it it's a curse it's not a curse
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If people could just work on themselves
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people if people could just improve
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themselves before building families and
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when I say improve themselves I'm not
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only talking about financially I'm also
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talking about um
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mentally um how you going to be parents
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how you going to parent your children
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what order are you going to bring into
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the family If people could fix that
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first before actually building the
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family so many people will be saved from
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curse family curse curse family
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curse why is it that most kids who are
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planned they are not into these family
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curses it's because they were planned
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somebody two people sat down and were
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like we want to have a child let's plan
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how are we going to do this we're going
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to do this by this and this we got to
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save this we've got to do this and then
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the child is spawn in they're like
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you're the dad I'm the mom this is your
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this is your duty and this is your duty
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and this is how we're going to raise
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this child and the child grows up being
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confident the child grows up going to
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good schools the child grows up and
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their their lives just open up it's they
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found their lives ready for them because
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they were planned they were planned by
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two parents who are not lazy so yeah man
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that's what I wanted to say that's what
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I wanted to say
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and I think I've said enough I think
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I've said enough until next time my
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beautiful people bye and toodles
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