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hey everyone welcome back to
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Wistaloom today I'm diving into a story
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that's raw emotional and honestly a
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roller coaster of heartbreak and healing
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it's a tale of trust betrayal and the
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messy path to finding closure so grab a
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cozy drink settle in and let's get into
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it picture this it's a bright sunny
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Sunday and I'm cruising down the road in
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my wife's car the windows cracked open
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the breeze carrying the scent of
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summer i'm on a simple mission to pick
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up a couple of new lawn chairs for our
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backyard to keep me company I've got the
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radio tuned to NPR where this American
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magic the stories they're sharing are so
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gripping that I'm hanging on to every
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word completely absorbed as the world
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outside blurs by then something catches
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a book recommendation that sounds so
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intriguing I have to write it down one
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hand on the steering wheel I start
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rumaging through the center console with
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the other feeling around for a pen my
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fingers brush past a jumble of forgotten
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items a crumpled candy wrapper an old
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Starbucks cup a stray quarter even a
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folding comb I didn't know we owned but
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then my hand lands on something
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unexpected a small package of
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my heart skips a beat i mean this isn't
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something you expect to find in your
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wife's car right the shock of it makes
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my grip on the wheel slip for just a
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second and I nearly veer off the road
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time slows down like a movie playing in
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motion a red Toyota zips past me on the
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left driven by a red-haired woman with a
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earring i snap my focus back to the road
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my mind racing the speedometer reads
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34me and I notice dust particles settled
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on the dashboard a quiet reminder of
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time passing unnoticed i try to shake it
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off telling myself there's got to be a
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logical explanation maybe it's old or
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maybe it's not what I think but as I
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glance at the windshield I see crushed
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beetles splattered across it evidence of
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journeys long past i grab a CD case to
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jot down the book title but its rough
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edges scratch my wrist jolting me out of
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in that moment a question hits me like a
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freight train is this
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mine that single question spirals into a
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storm of doubts have I ever even thought
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about infidelity before the idea feels
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foreign messy like a puzzle with missing
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pieces am I feeling guilty for
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suspecting something scared of
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uncovering a dark secret or worse am I
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doubting myself wondering if I've done
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something to cause this my mind is a
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whirlwind but I know I can't ignore this
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i need answers so I start searching the
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car like a detective on a mission i
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check the glove compartment the doors
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under the seats even the trunk my hands
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are shaking as I dig through every
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corner hoping to find something anything
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finally under the passenger seat tucked
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inside a plastic supermarket bag I find
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it a small spiralbound notebook my pulse
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races as I pull it out carefully
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unwrapping it like it's a ticking time
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bomb i open the notebook my breath
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catching in my throat the first two
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pages are blank which only heightens my
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curiosity but as I flip further I find
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lists cryptic handwritten lists one
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entry is crossed out and it grabs my
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attention immediately under normal
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circumstances I might have brushed it
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off as nothing but something about these
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lists feels familiar i scan the pages
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and a pattern emerges the dates match my
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work trips that crossed out entry it's
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the day I got sick and stayed home
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unexpectedly my heart sinks as the
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pieces start to fit together the
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contraceptives the notebook the crossed
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out date it's all pointing to something
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I don't want to believe i think back to
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the hotels I stayed at during my trips
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holiday in Quality Inn Travel Lodge the
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notebook seems to be a schedule and one
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entry stands out a meeting planned for
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the next day at 1:30 p.m at either the
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Travel Lodge or Holiday Inn my stomach
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churns this can't be real can it i try
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to convince myself there's another
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explanation but the evidence is staring
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me in the face the truth hits me like a
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ton of bricks my wife Sherry has been
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affair not just a one-time mistake but
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an ongoing deliberate affair for 4
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months the realization shatters me i
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feel like I'm standing on the edge of a
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cliff watching everything I thought I
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crumble anger resentment and heartbreak
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me part of me wants to scream to
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confront her right then and there but
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another part the part that still loves
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her can't bear the thought of letting go
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i'm torn i want to believe there's a
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mistake but the evidence is
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undeniable i think about what she might
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say when I confront her will she beg for
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forgiveness saying "I'm sorry my love i
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never wanted you to find out." or will
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she turn it around blaming me for being
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gone too often for suspecting her in the
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place my mind spins with possibilities
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each one more painful than the last and
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then a thought so shocking it sends
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spine what if she's been with someone
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close to me someone like my brother the
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idea is too much i feel like I'm
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drowning in a sea of betrayal
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i carefully place the notebook and
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contraceptives back where I found them
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my hands trembling my face feels heavy
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like gravity itself is pulling me down
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with the weight of my
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sadness i drive home my mind a fog of
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confusion and pain that night I can
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barely look at Sherry when she tries to
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talk about a book she's reading I brush
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her off claiming I'm stressed about work
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i busy myself with dishes chores
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anything to avoid her i wait until she's
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asleep before I let myself collapse
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under the weight of it all the next
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morning I'm up early my resolve
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hardening i need to know the truth i
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drive to the old Holiday Inn a place
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where guests can park right by the rooms
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bypassing the lobby my plan is simple
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but desperate i need to see who Sherry's
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meeting i walk into the hotel and
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approach the receptionist my heart
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pounding i think my wife is meeting
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someone here at 1:30 I say trying to
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steady i suspect she's having an affair
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and I just want to see the surveillance
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footage the receptionist's face is
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skeptical his tone polite but firm i'm
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sorry sir but I can't grant you access
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we're responsible for our guest's
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privacy and I have no way to confirm
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story i get it he's just doing his job
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but I'm not giving up i've spent years
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honing my negotiation skills finding
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solutions that work for everyone so I
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strike up a conversation with him
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building a rapport i share just enough
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about the notebook and contraceptives to
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make my case and soon he sees it's
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better for the hotel to let me watch the
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monitors with him present than to risk
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me causing a scene outside to sweeten
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the deal I offer to buy us lunch from
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Subway a tuna sub for me chicken with
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bacon and ranch for him we sit together
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eating sandwiches and watching local
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news chatting like old friends he opens
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up about his life his nephew's in prison
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his dad's health is failing i share a
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bit about my situation and we bond over
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the struggle of sticking to diets he
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tried Atkins i'm more of a eat what
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feels right guy it's strange how quickly
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you can connect with someone when you're
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both just being real at exactly 1:25 p.m
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I see her on the monitor sherry pulls
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into the back entrance of the Holiday
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Inn parking as far from the street as
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possible she's on her phone her face
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tense after the call she checks her
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reflection in the rear view mirror
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twirling a strand of hair
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absent-mindedly then at 1:30 sharp a
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sleek blue BMW pulls up a tall man with
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brown hair steps out grabs a room key
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and glances back at Sherry she steps out
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of her car walks confidently toward him
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and he wraps an arm around her waist as
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they disappear into the
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hotel my heart stops i know that man
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it's Tom my best friend of 20 years the
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guy who was my best man at our wedding
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just as I was for his younger brother he
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knew how much Sherry meant to me how
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committed I was to our
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marriage and yet here he is betraying me
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in the worst way possible
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the receptionist gives me a sympathetic
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look but I barely notice i'm numb i
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leave the hotel my mind a
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blur i drive to a nearby golf course
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where I start hitting balls each swing a
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release of the rage and hurt building
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inside me the four iron feels like an
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extension of my body and for a fleeting
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moment I find clarity in the rhythm of
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the game feeling a surge of
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determination I call Tom's wife Peg and
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invite them to dinner at Cyros at 7 p.m
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i leave a message for Sherry too telling
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her to meet me there i want this
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confrontation to happen face to
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face when I get home Sherry's in the
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shower her gym bag open on the floor i'm
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tempted to dig through it but I
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resist instead I call out that I'm
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taking a shower too and we end up
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sharing a moment of intimacy that feels
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bittersweet her warmth her
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passion it's all so familiar yet tainted
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by what I know i cling to that moment
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knowing it might be our last at Cyros
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the four of us me Sherry Tom and Peg sit
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together the air thick with tension i
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anymore i ask "What would you do if your
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best friend betrayed you or if your
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spouse was having an affair with them
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the table falls silent tom's face pales
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and Peg's eyes narrow before anyone can
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respond Peg's fist connects with Tom's
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face a sharp crack echoing through the
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restaurant time slows again and I savor
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the moment watching Tom's usual charm
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replaced by guilt i turn to Sherry my
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heavy how should I respond to your
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divorce she freezes her hand gripping
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mine peg storms out and I calmly ask Tom
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bill come on I say to Sher and we leave
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together in the car she's sobbing
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apologizing over and over i'm sorry she
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says her voice breaking are you sorry
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you got caught i snap sorry you hurt me
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sorry you ruined our marriage my anger
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spills out and I can't stop it
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when we pull up to her parents house I
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tell her to get out she begs me to stay
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but I drive away my heart
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shattered back home I'm consumed by rage
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i tear through Sherry's closet ripping
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her clothes off hangers slicing them
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knife i throw our wedding album into the
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fireplace watching it burn along with
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her underwear the flames consume
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everything just like my anger consumes
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i collapse into an armchair watching a
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football game until exhaustion takes
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over the next morning I wake up to a
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house that's eerily calm except for the
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mess of torn clothes and charred
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remnants i shower letting the water wash
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away the memories of the night before i
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call Tom and to my surprise he answers
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profusely he says it started as harmless
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flirting at the mall but it spiraled out
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of control he swears it was a mistake
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but I'm done our friendship is over i
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tell him "You're out of my
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life." I hang up feeling a strange sense
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of finality i head to Sherry's parents
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house where her father greets me with a
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sigh "she loves you you know," he says
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calling her foolish but urging me to see
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it as a mistake we can move
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past inside I sit across from Sherry at
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the kitchen table she looks broken her
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eyes swollen from crying i take a deep
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breath and lay it all out i'm filing for
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divorce I say you betrayed me our
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marriage everything but because I loved
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you I'm giving you a chance to prove
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you're a good person if you do maybe we
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can start over not as husband and wife
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but from scratch the divorce takes 4
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months sherry moves back with her
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parents and I find a new apartment i
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throw myself into work and sports trying
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rebuild peg reaches out a couple of
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times but I tell her I need space i take
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a vacation to Chile hiking and rock
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climbing to clear my mind when I return
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there's a message from Sherry i call her
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and we meet at a cafe she looks nervous
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fidgeting i want to give this a chance I
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say asking what she wants then she drops
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a bombshell i'm expecting a baby
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my world tilts her loose dress hides a
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pregnancy I hadn't noticed i'm
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speechless my mind racing whose child is
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it i drive her to a clinic for a DNA
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test my anger flaring when she says Tom
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ignored her message about the pregnancy
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we don't speak for the rest of the drive
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that night I can't sleep haunted by the
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uncertainty the next day the clinic
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calls with the results i drive there my
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heart pounding the news is devastating
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i'm not the father i sit in my car for
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an hour tears streaming down my face i
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text Sherry the results attaching a
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photo of the test she calls repeatedly
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but I can't face her i block her number
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along with all our mutual friends i buy
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a small house far away determined to
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behind 7 months later I'm building a new
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life i have a girlfriend but I'm keeping
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my parents tell me about Sherry she fell
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into a deep depression after our split
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giving birth prematurely to a baby girl
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with Down syndrome she's raising her
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alone with her parents' help the news
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brings tears to my eyes but I know I've
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made the right choice the pain of
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betrayal lingers but I'm moving forward
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one step at a time thanks for watching
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that life can throw curveballs but we
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